Seeing is Believing

October 10, 2009 by Kevin

I caught this video on CNN about a man who tried to climb K2 in Pakistan.  His name is Greg Mortenson and he didn’t make it to the top but got injured, almost died and had to be nursed back to health in a small Pakistan village.  He impressed me, not because he climbed K2, but because of how he spent his recovery time.  He noticed how the village lacked a proper school.  He saw kids writing school lessons in the dirt with sticks!  So he helped build them a school.  And then he built another one in a different village and has kept going and has now built 78 schools in Pakistan and Afghanistan!

There are so many causes in this world that need attention but it seems like some of us have to see the need with our own two eyes before we truly believe something should be done.  Or we need to see it before we believe that we should be the ones to do something.  Sometimes we don’t embrace compassion until it hits us right between the eyes.  But even then some people still don’t embrace it.

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I’m Praying for Some Nancy’s

September 29, 2009 by Kevin

A few years ago at Victory I knew a lady named Nancy.  I didn’t know her very well but I knew enough.  She was a Bus Captain for Victory Bus Ministry for years.  A little white lady who beamed with compassion and love for inner city kids.  That’s what her life was all about.  There were kids that got on her bus as 1st graders and didn’t get off until they were Bus Leaders as high school graduates.  She would do anything she could do to reach a young person for Christ and then to disciple them.

I’m praying for some Nancy’s.  I’ve got some incredible leaders at Chosen but I need more.  I’m praying for leaders to step up and become Public School Chaplains, Small Group Leaders and Bus Captains.  I’m praying for leaders that put others first.

I’ll Never Forget Sept. 10, 2009

September 11, 2009 by Kevin

I won’t even begin to take credit for what happened last night.  It was Chosen’s first night back after taking the summer off.  Chosen is Victory’s urban/inner-city youth outreach that buses teenagers in from all around Tulsa.

First, I was very worried no one would show up because we couldn’t get the word out like we wanted to.  Second, our worship band was having a hard time coming together and I was calling people I’ve never met asking them to come play keyboard, guitar and drums.  Third, not only have I never led a Chosen service but this was a very busy service involving free pizza, drinks, a dance team, rap artist, free school supplies for everyone, my first message in a while and brand new worship team.

Well, 160 students showed up.  The worship team came together and played great ( I thought we wouldn’t get the drummer until I headed downstairs and heard someone playing drums).  The service was amazing – the students loved the dance team, rap artist and all the free stuff.  They even loved me.  I was amazed at how much they responded to me ( I stick out like a sore thumb at the service – it’s funny).  And I was amazed at God and what He did in their lives.  There were so many students that accepted Jesus as their savior that we couldn’t even count them.  The prayer time at the end of service lasted so long I thought we would get out late!  It was so powerful and it’s a night I’ll never forget.  God really showed up!

Don’t Postpone Your Dreams

September 9, 2009 by Kevin

Isn’t it interesting how God takes you through tough seasons in life to prepare you for your future.  You may think that you are simply suffering or bored or frustrated but really God is at work preparing you and building you up for what lies ahead. He is the master Architect.

Building a Foundation isn’t flashy but it’s probably the most important phase of building. Regardless, the foundation is certainly the first phase and if you don’t build it now you postpone your dreams.

Update on My Life

September 1, 2009 by Kevin

As you may know Christina and I left Northwood Church in Charleston,SC on June 1st and moved to Tulsa,OK. We had a wonderful experience during our 3 1/2 years at Northwood and were sad to go but we just felt like God wanted us in Tulsa. In fact, last summer while I was in Mexico City I felt like God showed me that that was going to be my last summer in Charleston. Over the next year we continually felt confirmation and I shared this with my pastor on January 2nd. Looking back, I feel so grateful for all that we learned at Northwood.

The last couple of months here in Tulsa have been interesting as I haven’t had a job but God has provided for us. I’ve been getting filled up at church (the past 3 years I’ve been speaking every Sunday morning), praying, spending tons of time with family, exercising, reading and fixing up our rent house (which happens to be the house I grew up in. Yeah, it’s weird).

I recently became interim pastor of the inner-city  youth ministry called “Chosen” at Victory Christian Center. As many as 500 teenagers are brought to Chosen on Thursday nights by Victory buses. These young people are the most at-risk kids in Tulsa and I can’t imagine a better chance to affect young lives.  So I accepted the position on an interim basis because I’ve got some other things I would like to do in the near future but this was an area I could contribute to immediately.

I don’t come from the same background as most of these students so this type of ministry is very new.  I’ve even gotten a few laughs from friends when I’ve told them that I’m the new pastor of “Chosen”.  They can’t believe someone as white as I am is in this position!  But I’ve always loved outreach and discipleship together and I’ve always wanted experience an intense and challenging ministry like this.  So I started my new job a couple of days ago and it’s been fun.  I’ve got two incredible interns, Janet and Angelica, sisters from Fort Worth, TX who are juniors at ORU.  They are the best!  The evening after my first full day we had a Chosen leaders meeting.  I was so impressed with the leaders.  They were not only passionate about ministry but also completely supportive of me.  The leaders were acting like they’ve known me all of my life.  Usually when someone new comes in veteran leaders tend to have walls up and won’t get too excited about the new guy.  So in a lot of ways this role is very new to me but it’s challenging in a very good way.

Also, I’m teaching a Youth Ministry class at Victory Bible Institute which is also a new challenge that I’m excited about.

So that’s the update. There’s a lot more to it but that’s the shortest version I can give.
If you’re in Tulsa and aren’t doing anything on Thursday nights, I could use your help!

This One’s For Rick

June 29, 2009 by Kevin

Trenton TurnerRick’s son, Trenton Turner

The funeral for my Uncle Rick Turner was today. He was a great man who loved Jesus. We will all miss him very much. But this post is about his 12 year old son Trenton.

Trenton has been playing summer baseball and had been waiting to get his first hit. His team was winless. The last night his Dad was alive he watched Trenton play and get his first hit. He got a solid hit on the ball but the third baseman grabbed it and threw him out before he could get to first. But I know that Rick was proud of his boy anyway.

Trenton’s next game was the day after his Dad passed away and even though it was hard he felt like he should play. The game was against the #1 ranked undefeated team and in the eighth inning the score was tied and Trenton was up to bat. Who knows what kind of emotions this poor kid was experiencing. On the very first pitch Trenton cracked the ball over the second baseman’s head and it rolled to center field and the winning run came home!

There are some stories that only God could write and I know God wrote this one for Rick. I’m sure he was watching on and he is as proud as ever.  The funeral was today and, as a testimony to Rick, there were over 500 people in attendance including all of Trenton’s baseball team on the top row dressed in their baseball uniforms.

Your Defining Moment

June 22, 2009 by Kevin

I was watching the movie “Sneakers” the other day and a scene at the end struck me.  The team of good guys have a chance to trade a special computer to the NSA and get almost anything they want in return.  While the rest of the team asks for Winnebago’s and trips to Europe, River Phoenix’ character asks for a female NSA Agents’ phone number, which I thought was brilliant.  But then Whistler, the blind guy on the team, asks for peace on Earth and goodwill toward men!  I love that he asks for that out of all the things to ask for!  The agent in charge says “We don’t do that sort of thing” to which the good guys reply “You’re just gonna have to try”.

For Whistler (and the rest of the team) it was a defining moment, which is “a point at which the essential nature or character of a person is revealed or identified”.  As the saying goes: adversity doesn’t build character, it reveals it.  We are building our own character, good or bad, everyday.  If we are careful we can hide the weaknesses in our character but at some point when we are stressed, stretched and tempted our true character will be revealed.  When that time comes I can only hope to be as sharp as the blind guy from “Sneakers”.

(the good kind of) Focus

May 27, 2009 by Kevin

I went for a run the other day and I was listening to an excellent podcast by Andy Stanley. Before I knew it I had run further than I ever have before.  A lot of times I think “I just need to focus!” but my run reminded me that focus can be bad if you’re focused on the wrong thing.  If I go for a run without my ipod it ends up being a terrible run.  The whole time I’m thinking about how difficult it is and when it will end.  We all know people that talk constantly about their problems.  That’s like staring at the rear-view mirror while your trying to drive forward.  Maybe we can go further than we ever have if we focus on the solution instead of the problem.

The Plant of the Knowledge of Good and Evil

April 24, 2009 by Kevin

As I was playing disc golf today I noticed my disc had landed near some poison ivy. You need to understand that I am a magnet for poison ivy. I’ve had it spread all over my body and usually at the worst of times, like when the IMT school year first started and I was meeting all of the new interns with a rash all over my face! I’ve taken everything there is to take to treat it and in the process I’ve learned everything there is to know about the demonic plant.

So when I noticed my disc had fallen near some ivy I took serious action. An ivy plant produces oil that most people are allergic to. This oil takes about 3 hours to bond to your skin and cause a reaction. So after I finished my round of disc golf I came home and immediately kicked off my shoes and took careful note of everything I touched on my way to the shower. After my shower I got out the latex gloves and cleaned the doorknobs, car keys, phone, wallet, water bottle, shoes, discs and I put my clothes in the wash. Christina was beginning to think I had committed a murder.  I can’t be too careful when it comes to poison ivy because I know all to well it’s potential.

It got me thinking. What if I feared the destruction sin can cause as much as I fear the itchy inconvenience of poison ivy? What if I realized how much sin had hurt me inwardly? (Aren’t we always so conscious of what affects us outwardly?  The things we can’t hide) What if I took such careful precautions to avoid the terrible effects sin can have on me?  What if I walked away from temptation like I carefully walk away from poison ivy?

Poison ivy oil can stick to your shoes and can still attach to you after a year if it’s not washed off.  Like sin, you can’t get away from it unless it’s cleansed.

If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say…

April 17, 2009 by Kevin

I’m sick of negativity.  It’s everywhere.  Criticism and cynicism sometimes get a free pass because those that spew it say “I’m just being honest”.   Honesty is good, right?  Yes but the Bible goes further. It instructs us to speak the truth in love. “But I do love that person I’m degrading”.  Maybe, but the question is are you speaking in love?  Another excuse: “I will say it to their face”.  I believe you, but will it hurt them?  Because if you will say something to someone’s face knowing it will hurt them….you’re a jerk.  You’ve got darkness in your life.  I understand the need to confront but it must be done in love and with a genuine desire to help (not to complain).  Negative people also claim that they only want the best out of people and can therefore criticize them in the name of “excellence”.  The problem is that critics tend to 1) focus on the bad and forget the good  2) criticize constantly, even when it is unwanted   3) fail to recognize that mistakes are a part of the learning process and  4) forget that they make plenty of their own mistakes.

There is a group of people, however, that never get criticized.  These people are the ones that never try.  They never do anything to stand out.  They stay in the safe zone because of, most likely, fear of criticism.  It makes you wonder though, if there were less critics would more people step out and try the things that are in their heart?  Check out one of my favorite quotes:

“It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.”  -Theodore Roosevelt

Here’s some good things to think about BEFORE you open your mouth:

What will I accomplish by saying this?

Would I say it directly to that person?  (If not, DON’T SAY IT!)

Would it hurt them?

Are you genuinely trying to help them?

Is it really necessary to say these things in the presence of anyone else?